Why Body Acceptance Is Essential For Health
Here's the thing with body confidence: you don't have to 'love' your body, at least not at the beginning of your recovery journey. But you do need to reach a point of accepting your body, in order to finally make peace with food and free yourself from dieting and worrying about weight.
What is 'body acceptance'?
Body acceptance is having an objective view of your body, and being OK with it. Accepting it for what it is, in that moment, and accepting that our bodies change throughout our lives. It's recognising that our appearance has literally no bearing on ourselves, as people. Because we're exactly that - people - we're not emotionless bodies walking around for ornamental purposes. Every single one of us is valuable - our weight and appearance doesn't alter that.
We can take body acceptance one step further, and embrace the parts of our bodies that we do like, and emphasise these. We can also show appreciation for our bodies and all they do for us, via self-care.
Why is body acceptance important for health?
Until you reach a stage where you're no longer trying to alter your appearance, it's incredibly hard, if not impossible, to truly focus on improving your health. Without body acceptance, food choices are made based on potential weight loss/weight gain, rather than your body's physical needs, and exercise choices are made based on the potential to alter body shape, and burn calories, instead of solely for the joy of it and the physical and psychological benefits.
Any feelings of desperation to change your body, are likely to increase the temptation to resort to drastic measures to control weight, such as diets, surgery, pills, self-induced vomiting, laxative abuse etc. and poor body image can be a precursor for eating disorders. Body shaming can also leave people feeling excluded from 'healthy' activities, like going swimming, group exercise classes or running in the park, as well as negatively impact on their mental wellbeing and other areas of their life - from how they play with their kids on holiday to whether they have the confidence to speak in public and deliver a pitch at work.
Weight loss will NOT make you accept your body
A common misconception people have is that when they've reached their goal weight, they'll suddenly love their bodies. More often than not, this is not the case. Sure, when you first lose weight or even hit your goal weight, the compliments will roll in (because society places a high value on slimness, remember). This will put you on cloud 9 and make you feel great. Temporarily. But eventually, the compliments stop, and the external validation you got for yourself fades away, leaving you to rely on self-validation. But you didn't have self-validation or self-acceptance in the first place, remember? That's one of the reasons you want to change your body.
What usually happens in this situation is you start looking for other ways to improve your body - to get more external validation (compliments) from others. You say things like "now I've lost all my weight, I'm going to focus on toning my arms or shaping my bum, or getting abs." This is still focusing on appearance rather than health, or exercise for the sake of exercise itself. and ultimately body acceptance still hasn't been achieved if you're still focusing on altering its appearance.
So, our goal before focusing on our health is to become our own source of validation and acceptance.
This ultimate bundle is made up of 5 amazing digital workbooks for you to complete digitally using your computer, or print off, pop in a binder and work through at your own pace.
It's like having your own health coach at your fingertips, only it costs less than the average price of one coaching session!
The workbooks included:
WORKBOOK ONE: STRESS & ANXIETY
This workbook is for you if you feel like you're overwhelmed with life's worries and responsibilities. Stress is likely to be affecting your health, happiness, and your work and personal life.
By the end of this workbook you will:
• Recognise the symptoms of anxiety and depression
• Learn how to manage thoughts of worry, catastrophic thinking and negative thought patterns.
• Learn how breathing exercises can relieve the symptoms of stress and immediately calm you down.
• Learn how using SCRUM methodology can make managing your work and business significantly less stressful and more productive.
• Put in place highly effective morning and evening routines, tailed to your lifestyle.
• Bring joy, passion and creativity back into your life and find your sense of purpose.
• Reduce feelings of isolation, put less pressure on your romantic connections and rekindle your social life in a way that fits around your life's responsibilities and interests.
• Put in place lifestyle habits which will support your calm mindset and improve your overall health.
WORKBOOK TWO: BODY IMAGE //Expanded Edition//
This printable workbook is designed to help you move from a place of hating your body, to a place of respecting and accepting your body, while also recognizing that you are so much more than your appearance. After completing the coaching exercises your body image will no longer hold you back from the parts of life you've been missing out on.
This 37-page workbook is split into three parts:
1. Body Neutrality - Shifting your focus away from your physical appearance and onto the other parts of what makes you, you.
2. Body Acceptance – Learning how to show your body respect and compassion and reach a place of peaceful acceptance with it.
3. Body Confidence – Reaching the stage where we don’t let our appearance or, more accurately, the thoughts we have about our appearance hold us back from enjoying the life we want.
WORKBOOK THREE: EMOTIONAL EATING
This workbook is packed with coaching exercises based on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help you better understand the causes of emotional eating and put in place effective alternative, more effective coping strategies for difficult emotions.
This workbook is split into three parts:
1. Understanding Emotional Eating
2. Developing Emotional Awareness
3. Developing Coping Strategies for Difficult Emotions
My approach to Emotional Eating is ‘Anti-Diet’, which means I do not view emotional eating as an ‘eating problem’. Research shows that responding to emotional eating by restricting food intake increases the risk of binge eating and so this is something I strongly advise against when working to overcome emotional eating.
Instead, the focus throughout this workbook will be to become more emotionally aware that we can accurately label our emotions, identify our underlying needs and meet them effectively.
By taking the time to work through the 43 pages of this workbook, you will:
• Understand why dieting or food restriction is NOT a solution to emotional eating (and why it exacerbates it)
• Understand why you comfort eat and how it's benefiting you (yes, really)
• Increase your emotional awareness - you'll be able to accurately label what you're feeling and identify the cause of it
• Develop effective, alternative coping strategies for coping with strong emotions
WORKBOOK FOUR: PEACEFUL EATING
The Printable Intuitive Eating Workbook for people who want to leave diets behind once and for all and embrace Intuitive Eating instead.
The workbook is split into three parts:
1. Developing Body Awareness – these exercises are designed to help you check in with your body’s signals, including your hunger and fullness cues.
2. Unconditional Permission to Eat – these exercises will help you understand and ditch the food rules you’ve adopted from past diets and diet culture.
3.Mindful Eating – these final exercises will help you find enjoyment and satisfaction from food and listen out for pesky thoughts of diets creeping back into your mind.
WORKBOOK FIVE: HEALTH BEYOND THE SCALE
In this workbook, we will be taking steps to improve our physical health, without focusing on weight. The truth is, we can only truly focus on our health, both physical and psychological once we have totally removed ourselves from diet culture and the dieting mindset.
Throughout this workbook, I want you to keep in mind that our health is important, but that it is also not a measure of our self-worth. It does not define us as people, as we are not ‘bad’ people when we become ill or if we have health issues.
This workbook is split into three parts:
• Part 1 - Joyful movement, where we will look at how to add pleasurable forms of movement into our lives and working through the barriers and issues we may have around exercise.
• Part 2 - Gentle nutrition, where we will look at the physical effect’s food has on us, some general nutritional guidelines (not rules!), and why calories and portion sizes are irrelevant. We will also discuss what we mean by the term ‘play-food’ and the value of ‘play-food’.
• Part 3 - Alternative ways to assess health, where we will look at biomarkers such as blood pressure, blood glucose, and blood cholesterol. All of these are far more useful in diagnosing, managing, and preventing common lifestyle illness, than simply stepping on a bathroom scale.
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ABOUT THE CREATOR
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, MA, is the founder of Beyond The Bathroom Scale®, a hub of self-help resources to aid with recovery from disordered eating and body image.
A former Social Worker, Karen holds a bachelor’s degree in Sociology, specialising in health and society and a master’s degree in Social Work. She has trained in counselling skills and psychotherapy-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Motivational Interviewing (MI).
Karen has previously written HuffPost UK and has been featured in The Metro, Cambridge Independent and Cosmopolitan Magazine.
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“I hate my body, I hate being seen in swimwear on holiday and I avoid exercising in public. I don’t feel comfortable in anything I wear. I have clothes in my wardrobe which I’m hoping to slim into… they’ve been there for 15 years. I usually wear something baggy to cover up my body.”
Does this sound like you?
This coaching workbook is designed to help you move from a place of hating your body, to a place of respecting and accepting your body, while also recognising that you are so much more than your appearance.
After completing the coaching exercises your body image will no longer hold you back from the parts of life you've been missing out on.
This workbook is split into three parts of coaching exercises:
1. Body Neutrality - Shifting your focus away from your physical appearance and onto the other parts of what makes you, you.
2. Body Acceptance – Learning how to show your body respect and compassion and reach a place of peaceful acceptance with it.
3. Body Confidence – Reaching the stage where we don’t let our appearance or, more accurately, the thoughts we have about our appearance, hold us back from enjoying the life we want.
//UPDATED - June 2021 // My bestselling workbook has now been expanded to include more coaching exercises and information to help you heal your body image!
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About the Author & Store Owner:
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, MA, is the Founder of Beyond The Bathroom Scale®, a hub of self-help resources to aid with recovery from disordered eating and body image. Karen is also the Programme Director of The Health Mindset Programme™, a 6-month online self-help programme for anyone who wants to improve their body image and relationship with food.
Karen has had articles published in on HuffPost UK and has been featured in The Metro and Cosmopolitan Magazine. Her award-winning blog and coaching programme is based on the Health at Every Size ® approach to health and draws on the principals of Intuitive Eating, the Body Positivity movement, Motivational Interviewing (MI), Positive Psychology and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), in order to help busy women tackle disordered eating, overcome emotional eating and recover from long-term dieting via a holistic, research-led online coaching programme.
A former Social Worker, Karen comes from an academic background of Psychology and Sociology. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Sociology, specialising in health and society and a master’s degree in Social Work. She has trained in Counselling skills and Psychotherapy-based approaches such as CBT, DBT and Motivational Interviewing.
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To obtain a professional use license, please purchase the workbooks using this link: https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/850608675/body-image-disordered-eating-cbt
© Copyright 2020 Beyond The Bathroom Scale® – All Rights Reserved.
"Beyond The Bathroom Scale" is a Registered UK Trademark and the intellectual property of the website owner, Karen Oliver, trading as Beyond The Bathroom Scale, part of Lynne Media ('our', 'we', 'us').
We take the protection of our intellectual property very seriously. If we discover that you have breached the terms of the license, we may bring legal proceedings against you and seek monetary damages and/or an injunction to stop you using our materials. You could also be ordered to pay our legal costs.
"I eat my feelings, I just can't help myself. I come home after a long stressful shift and I work nights sometimes so I often skip meals. I'm just so tired and stressed when I come home but I know that crisps, chocolate and wine are waiting for me. In the moment I feel better.. but the guilt kicks in afterwards."
Does this sound like you?
Many people struggle with emotional eating or 'comfort eating' and use food as a self-soothing mechanism for strong emotions.
The difficulty with emotional eating, is that our society shames people for comfort eating, and then pushes them towards dieting or restricting food in an attempt to curb food intake or counter-act emotional eating. This approach actually exacerbates it and often leads to further eating problems (like binge eating disorder, for example).
The approach we take in this Workbook (and the exact approach I use with my coaching clients) is to first increase your emotional awareness through mindfulness and meditation and then help you understand the purpose of even the most negative emotions you feel. We then look at how to build alternative coping strategies to meet your emotional needs and finish off by setting life goals instead of weight-based goals.
In taking this approach, you will no longer feel shamed for comfort eating, or destroy your relationship with food further by dieting. Instead you will feel free of food anxiety, empowered to meet your emotional needs and able to take control of your life path.
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This workbook is packed with coaching exercises based on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help you better understand the causes of emotional eating and put in place effective alternative, more effective coping strategies for difficult emotions.
This workbook is split into three parts:
1. Understanding Emotional Eating
2. Developing Emotional Awareness
3. Developing Coping Strategies for Difficult Emotions
My approach to Emotional Eating is ‘Anti-Diet’, which means I do not view emotional eating as an ‘eating problem’. Research shows that responding to emotional eating by restricting food intake increases the risk of binge eating and so this is something I strongly advise against when working to overcome emotional eating.
Instead, the focus throughout this workbook will be to become more emotionally aware that we can accurately label our emotions, identify our underlying needs and meet them effectively.
By taking the time to work through the 43 pages of this workbook you will:
--> Understand why dieting or food restriction is NOT a solution to emotional eating (and why it exacerbates it)
--> Understand why you comfort eat and how it's benefiting you (yes, really)
--> Increase your emotional awareness - you'll be able to accurately label what you're feeling and identify the cause of it
--> Develop effective, alternative coping strategies for coping with strong emotions
This workbook is packed with useful ‘cheat sheets’ and worksheets.
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TIPS:
This workbook contains a mix of portrait and landscape pages. Please select 'Auto portrait/landscape'
when printing.
You can also print on both sides to save paper.
**No Printer? No problem!**
Your purchase is a digitally fillable pdf, which you can complete using your computer :)
____________________________________________________________________________________
ABOUT THE CREATOR:
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, MA, is the Founder of Beyond The Bathroom Scale®, a hub of self-help resources to aid with recovery from disordered eating and body image. Karen is also the Programme Director of The Health Mindset Programme™, a 6-month online self-help programme for anyone who wants to improve their body image and relationship with food.
Karen has had articles published in on HuffPost UK and has been featured in The Metro and Cosmopolitan Magazine. Her award-winning blog and coaching programme is based on the Health at Every Size ® approach to health and draws on the principals of Intuitive Eating, the Body Positivity movement, Motivational Interviewing (MI), Positive Psychology and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), in order to help busy women tackle disordered eating, overcome emotional eating and recover from long-term dieting via a holistic, research-led online coaching programme.
A former Social Worker, Karen comes from an academic background of Psychology and Sociology. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Sociology, specialising in health and society and a master’s degree in Social Work. She has trained in Counselling skills and Psychotherapy-based approaches such as CBT, DBT and Motivational Interviewing.
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To obtain a professional use license, please purchase the workbooks using this link: https://beyondthebathroomscale.co.uk/therapy-workbooks/p/body-image-disordered-eating-cbt-workbooks-digitally-fillable-and-printable-for-professional-use-health-coach-therapist-pt
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We take the protection of our intellectual property very seriously. If we discover that you have breached the terms of the license (as linked to in the footer above), we may bring legal proceedings against you and seek monetary damages and/or an injunction to stop you using our materials. You could also be ordered to pay our legal costs.
“Food is always on my mind. I feel out-of-control around my favourite foods, I always end up binging on them when I finally let myself have them. I worry about calories and macros and track them using an app. I have a long history of dieting which started when I was a teenager. I feel like food probably isn’t this big of a deal for other people, I wish I could relax around it like they seem to.”
Does this sound like you?
The Printable Peaceful Eating Workbook for people who want to leave diets behind once and for all and embrace Intuitive and Mindful Eating instead.
The workbook is split into three parts:
1. Developing Body Awareness – these exercises are designed to help you check in with your body’s signals, including your hunger and fullness cues.
2. Unconditional Permission to Eat – these exercises will help you understand and ditch the food rules you’ve adopted from past diets and diet culture.
3.Mindful Eating – these final exercises will help you find enjoyment and satisfaction from food and listen out for pesky thoughts of diets creeping back into your mind.
This workbook is packed with useful ‘cheat sheets’ and worksheets for you to print and make copies of.
You could create your own binder of self-help resources for your mental wellbeing and personal development and add to them using additional workbooks available on the Lynne Media Etsy Store.
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TIPS:
This workbook contains a mix of portrait and landscape pages. Please select 'Auto portrait/landscape'
when printing.
You can also print on both sides to save paper.
**No Printer? No problem!**
Your purchase is a digitally fillable pdf, which you can complete using your computer :)
ABOUT THE CREATOR:
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, MA, is the Founder of Beyond The Bathroom Scale®, a hub of self-help resources to aid with recovery from disordered eating and body image. Karen is also the Programme Director of The Health Mindset Programme™, a 6-month online self-help programme for anyone who wants to improve their body image and relationship with food.
Karen has had articles published in on HuffPost UK and has been featured in The Metro and Cosmopolitan Magazine. Her award-winning blog and coaching programme is based on the Health at Every Size ® approach to health and draws on the principles of Intuitive Eating, the Body Positivity movement, Motivational Interviewing (MI), Positive Psychology and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), in order to help busy women tackle disordered eating, overcome emotional eating and recover from long-term dieting via a holistic, research-led online coaching programme.
A former Social Worker, Karen comes from an academic background of Psychology and Sociology. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Sociology, specialising in health and society and a master’s degree in Social Work. She has trained in Counselling skills and Psychotherapy-based approaches such as CBT, DBT and Motivational Interviewing.
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NOT LICENSED FOR PROFESSIONAL USE
To obtain a professional use license, please purchase the workbooks using this link: https://beyondthebathroomscale.co.uk/therapy-workbooks/p/body-image-disordered-eating-cbt-workbooks-digitally-fillable-and-printable-for-professional-use-health-coach-therapist-pt
© Copyright 2020 Beyond The Bathroom Scale® – All Rights Reserved.
"Beyond The Bathroom Scale" is a Registered UK Trademark and the intellectual property of the website owner, Karen Oliver, trading as Beyond The Bathroom Scale, part of Lynne Media ('our', 'we', 'us').
We take the protection of our intellectual property very seriously. If we discover that you have breached the terms of the license, we may bring legal proceedings against you and seek monetary damages and/or an injunction to stop you using our materials. You could also be ordered to pay our legal costs.
“I’ve been practising Intuitive Eating for awhile. I beginning to feel more at peace with food and my body - but I’m concerned about my health! I want to exercise - not from a place of punishment, but from a place of wanting to care for my body. I also want to improve my nutrition, without slipping back into dieting.”
Does this sound like you?
In this workbook, we will be taking steps to improve our physical health, without focusing on weight. The truth is, we can only truly focus on our health, both physical and psychological once we have totally removed ourselves from diet culture and the dieting mindset.
Throughout this workbook, I want you to keep in mind that our health is important, but that it is also not a measure of our self-worth. It does not define us as people, as we are not ‘bad’ people when we become ill or if we have health issues.
This workbook is split into three parts:
• Part 1 - Joyful movement, where we will look at how to add pleasurable forms of movement into our lives and working through the barriers and issues we may have around exercise.
• Part 2 - Gentle nutrition, where we will look at the physical effect’s food has on us, some general nutritional guidelines (not rules!), and why calories and portion sizes are irrelevant. We will also discuss what we mean by the term ‘play-food’ and the value of ‘play-food’.
• Part 3 - Alternative ways to assess health, where we will look at biomarkers such as blood pressure, blood glucose, and blood cholesterol. All of these are far more useful in diagnosing, managing, and preventing common lifestyle illness, than simply stepping on a bathroom scale.
This workbook is packed with useful ‘cheat sheets’ and worksheets.
______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
TIPS:
This workbook contains a mix of portrait and landscape pages. Please select 'Auto portrait/landscape'
when printing.
You can also print on both sides to save paper.
**No Printer? No problem!**
Your purchase includes two versions of the workbook - a printable pdf and a digitally fillable pdf, which you can complete using your computer :)
ABOUT THE CREATOR:
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, MA, is the Founder of Beyond The Bathroom Scale®, a hub of self-help resources to aid with recovery from disordered eating and body image. Karen is also the Programme Director of The Health Mindset Programme™, a 6-month online self-help programme for anyone who wants to improve their body image and relationship with food.
Karen has had articles published in on HuffPost UK and has been featured in The Metro and Cosmopolitan Magazine. Her award-winning blog and coaching programme is based on the Health at Every Size ® approach to health and draws on the principals of Intuitive Eating, the Body Positivity movement, Motivational Interviewing (MI), Positive Psychology and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), in order to help busy women tackle disordered eating, overcome emotional eating and recover from long-term dieting via a holistic, research-led online coaching programme.
A former Social Worker, Karen comes from an academic background of Psychology and Sociology. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Sociology, specialising in health and society and a master’s degree in Social Work. She has trained in Counselling skills and Psychotherapy-based approaches such as CBT, DBT and Motivational Interviewing.
NOT LICENSED FOR PROFESSIONAL USE
To obtain a professional use license, please purchase the workbooks using this link: https://beyondthebathroomscale.co.uk/therapy-workbooks/p/body-image-disordered-eating-cbt-workbooks-digitally-fillable-and-printable-for-professional-use-health-coach-therapist-pt
© Copyright 2020 Beyond The Bathroom Scale® – All Rights Reserved.
"Beyond The Bathroom Scale" is a Registered UK Trademark and the intellectual property of the website owner, Karen Oliver.
We take the protection of our intellectual property very seriously. If we discover that you have breached the terms of the license, we may bring legal proceedings against you and seek monetary damages and/or an injunction to stop you using our materials. You could also be ordered to pay our legal costs.
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, BSc (Hons), MA, GMBPsS
Karen Lynne Oliver, BA, BSc (Hons), MA, GMBPsS, is the founding director of Beyond The Bathroom Scale ®. She is a former social worker, retraining as a trauma-informed therapist specialising in eating disorders and body image.
Feel more at home in your body — no matter what stage of your GLP-1 journey you're on.
This beautifully designed digital workbook offers gentle, trauma-informed support for anyone using GLP-1 medications (like Ozempic, Wegovy or Mounjaro) who wants to heal their relationship with food, body image, and self-worth.
Whether you’re new to GLP-1 weight loss injections or further along in your journey, this self-paced workbook meets you exactly where you’re at — with no shame, no food rules, and no pressure to shrink yourself.
💡 What’s Inside:
25+ therapist-informed coaching exercises designed to deepen body awareness and self-compassion
Tools to support your relationship with food, hunger, body image, movement, and emotional eating
Practical activities like the Body Timeline, Food Rule Challenge Ladder, and Weekly Self-Care Rhythm Planner
Trauma-informed prompts, sensory grounding practices, and boundary-setting support
A discount code for the full online course (exclusive to workbook buyers!)
Instant digital download — fill in digitally or print at home
🎯 This workbook is for you if:
You feel disconnected from hunger or fullness while on GLP-1 medication
You’re ready to stop obsessing over numbers and start redefining true health
You want to unlearn diet culture and reconnect with your body in a safe, supported way
You’re looking for coaching-style guidance that honours your emotional and physical needs
You’re not quite ready for the full course, or want a more affordable entry point
📥 Format:
PDF digital workbook (fillable + printable)
Immediate download after purchase
For personal use only
🧠 Created by:
Karen Lynne Oliver
Therapist-in-training | Eating Psychology Coach | Founder of Beyond the Bathroom Scale®